The (re)Issue

This collection was designed to feel whimsical yet classic—a cozy hug in the form of pajamas. I wanted each piece to make you smile, even in the midst of fear and uncertainty.

A cancer diagnosis can be terrifying and isolating. But I believe that slipping into these pieces can be a small but powerful reminder: you are not alone. There is a community here for you.

And there is still joy to be found.

This week we sat down with Tammy Leyden and Caryn Siegel Finley, two childhood best friends from Staten who went through breast cancer together. Tammy and Caryn have created an Instagram page called @breastiefriendsforever where they share their experiences with breast cancer.

Upstate Mary was born out of a personal journey of resilience and self-discovery. Co-Founder Melissa Eppard faced the challenge of an aggressive form of breast cancer at the age of 36. This diagnosis led to the loss of her breasts, fertility, and hair, and it left Melissa feeling disconnected from her body and her sexuality.

I struggled to find a doctor, as this was very different from cancer; it seemed that the healthcare system didn't prioritize my implant issue at all, and I had to leave the state just to find a doctor who would take me. I am grateful that it went smoothly, and I didn't have serious complications as a result of the wait. I was able to live my life mostly as normal while avoiding pressure on that rupture. I am super happy with my recent reconstruction!

Dr. Saida Désilets is a pioneering advocate for sexual sovereignty, dedicated to empowering individuals to fully inhabit their bodies and embrace their innate body intelligence. Her mission is to inspire people to live life on their own terms, fostering a deep connection with themselves that leads to increased vitality, beauty, and pleasure.